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Mom... I'm exhausted.
Mom... I'm exhausted.

Are We Over Scheduling Our Dogs?

The Wall Street Journal recently published an interesting look at empty nesters and their dogs. You can read the article online HERE. 

According to the American Veterinary Medical Association, which polled 80,000 families in 2007, parents over the age of 45 are by far the largest group of dog owners, at 24% of the total. And these empty nesters' dogs are filling the gap left by their grown children. Gone are the days of taking Timmy to soccer and guitar practice and Susie to swim team and acting lessons. The article found that 45+ pet parents are taking their dogs to doggy daycare, agility classes, dog parks, play dates, driving up to 150 miles on a weekend for events, and enrolling them in specialty dog sport classes. After her children left for college one woman is quoted in the WSJ article as saying "Holy Toledo, I've got a lot of time." Her dogs became her substitute children, and she now spends her time shuttling her furry family from activity to activity.

So my question is... have we gone too far? Come on, we've all seen the people who carry their perfectly-capable-of-waking-dogs around in baby slings. Case in point. Do we run the risk of becoming crazy dog people who over-schedule our dog's lives with enriching activities to fill some void in our own lives, or is it just all in good fun? Do the dogs really enjoy it or are they anthropomorphised?

Of course dogs benefit from socialization and exercise. We love them, and want to give them good, full lives. But are we at a point in "dog owning culture" where we do too much for our dogs and not enough for ourselves or our fellow man? And are all these activities and attention spoiling our dogs?

Let me know what you think in the comments below.

So my question is... have we gone too far?

Comments

by khackett | Tuesday, May 18th, 2010 at 4:16pm

I don't think so...as long as the dog is physically and mentally capable of doing the activities then why not? Dogs like being in a pack even if it is just you and one dog...they need the excercise and socialization in order to be happy! They need energy drained in order to be happy! A dog jumping up and down is not showing happyness...it is excitement and is stemed from being couped up in a house all day. I'm not saying enroll an English bulldog into agility! They are a more laid back "lazy" breed. However I know people who have extreamly high energy dogs that don't go anywhere and stay inside 24/7 except to go out to "potty" and can't figure out why their dog is destroying the house or jumping on everyone or driving them straight crazy! As long as the dog is capable and the human is capable why not have fun and experiance different doggie activities?


by Dogs R Us | Wednesday, May 19th, 2010 at 2:55pm

Khackett - very well said! While I believe that some doggie parents do go to the extreme when it comes to dog sport competition - literally driving their dogs all over the country, most parents are doing a good thing for their dogs.

As a Certified Dog Trainer, I always recommend that dogs get daily exercise and that they are socialized from day one. To some, this may seem a relentless task. By taking your dog to agility class, the dog park or on play dates, the owners get more personal enjoyment and it doesn't feel so much like the dreaded word "Exercise". Remember, this is a family relationship. We brought dogs into our lives for a reason - so let's have some fun with them!

As a Dog Mommy of two high energy dogs, I am one of the biggest advocates for Doggy Daycare. When life or work takes you away from your dogs, you can feel good taking your dogs to daycare for the day knowing that they are getting the exercise and socialization that they need. When I pick them up from daycare, they look so happy. It always puts a smile on my face to see them crash in the car on the way home.

So, all in all, I am proud of the owners that get involved and give their dogs the exercise and socialization that is so very important. I would much rather see a tired dog at the end of the day versus a bored one.

As the saying among trainers go - "A tired dog is a good dog" :-)

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